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Men, do you have no shame hitting on a woman 10+ years younger than you?

Or maybe I just look old and you think I’m the same age 💀

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StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
I’m cautious when it comes to hitting on someone 21, but I have.
@StevetheSleeve creepy at your big age
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic I hope not.
@StevetheSleeve Nope, it 100% is for a grown man to hit on someone with an underdeveloped brain.
@StevetheSleeve and hardly any life experience compared to your own. It’s creepy af.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic LoL. Your theories in brain development are questionable.
@StevetheSleeve they’re not theories. It’s proven biological fact that the brain doesn’t finish developing until you are 25. That’s when the prefrontal cortex is finished developing, and that is the part of the brain that control decision making. Did you not have biology class in school ?
@StevetheSleeve if you want to be creepy, then be creepy. But don’t pretend that’s it’s okay for a middle aged man to go after someone who is hardly an adult.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic I’m 31. That’s not yet middle age. Also, if the brain is still in developmental stage it doesn’t mean a person hasn’t already achieved an adult level of maturity. You’re being kind of trolly, which can be fun.
@StevetheSleeve I’m not trying to troll, these are my honest, genuine views. I think age gap relationships are gross.
@StevetheSleeve and it’s not a matter of “if”, it IS.

And you can be mature for your age yes, but that doesn’t change the fact that your brain is still physically incapable of process information to its fullest extent.
@StevetheSleeve it’s also hard to have adult level maturity when you have only been an adult for 3 years.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic You see the words age gap on this site and it’s often predatory old men looking to commit a felony. So yeah.
@StevetheSleeve I had these stances as teen, before SW even existed.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@MorbidCynic So ... your not fully developed brain as a teen?
@StevetheSleeve as a teen who has been traumatized by older men and knew that they can’t be trusted. Nice try, morals start to developing at 11/12 years old. You should be critically thinking as a teenager, that doesn’t mean older men should be allowed to date you.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@MorbidCynic That’s a grooming technique. Telling someone they are mature for their age, they have an old soul, you are special, etc. is a way for a man to make you feel special, seen and heard.

What they are really doing is predatory because the power dynamic between a 30+ year old man and a younger women 18-23 is not the same. They are just looking to use and abuse until they are finished.

It’s not in all cases of course but in so many.
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Valerian · 100+, M
@StevetheSleeve Your words:
[quote]Also, if the brain is still in developmental stage it doesn’t mean a person hasn’t already achieved an adult level of maturity.[/quote]

Steve, "[b]developmental[/b]" means "in progress of growing, changing, refining, ... not yet complete"
0.001% thru 99.999% still in progress, still Developmental!
[b]Developed[/b] means Done, 100%!

But you go and do whatever your ego demands & ethics allow, that playground isn't fenced except by consciousness, conscience and karma.