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Does it make me a coward to walk away and move on when I've been wronged by people?

I could get revenge on them all, but I'm so tired. They deserve it and I have what I need to teach them a lesson messing with the wrong person; I want to get revenge and then start fresh leaving them in the trash where they belong...but idk why im hesitating. I just feel wrong inside thinking of what I'm going to do but I cant just let them get away with what they did to me. Part of me wants to stand up for myself and make them regret messing with me but the other part thinks me walking away, building my peace again, and showing they don't affect me is more effective
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Convivial · 26-30, F
There's a Chinese saying..
Those that seek revenge should first dig two graves ...
I happen to believe in it... Why waste your future on them?

Being happy and successful is a pretty good outcome to aim for
crushedstrawberriess · 22-25, F
@Convivial you're right, and I do want to move forward and just be happy, it feels so good to finally be done, but at the same tine I worry Ill feel resentment/cowardice towards muself for letting them hurt and embarrass me
Convivial · 26-30, F
@crushedstrawberriess what you can do is maybe be more selective, more careful with people in the future... Those things of which you speak have already happened, is your choice whether you want to carry them forward with you or leave them behind.
Nothing to do with cowardice, more to do with not wasting any more time on them
PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
@Convivial
I believe in it too.
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