My exboyfriend of 6 months broke up with me

Because I lack emotional immaturity and react quote "like an immature 14 year old" but got so mad last night after reaching out after not talking to me after a week of breaking up with me that I didn't want to be his friend. My thing is why do you want to be friends with someone who quote is emotionally draining for you?

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

That's a very good question, and not one that a typical 14 year old would think to ask. Did you ask him why he wants to be your friend, and if it is more to keep you in his life for his sake than yours? Let him tell you why he wants you around. If you like the answer and are emotionall mature enough to remain friends then you could try it, but if you genuinely loved him it probably is going to take more than a,couple weeks to get past the hurt and be able to turn the page and be friends. It most likely would take the average person years not weeks so proceed slowly.