Are you self aware enough to know when you are the problem

In your life? You are whats holding you back, you are whats stopping yourself from getting better
Your stubborness, self pitying, inability to take on any advice, your guardedness and self loathing.

Ive talked with many people who werent aware or just in denial that theyre the problem with their life. They were all so busy blaming everyone else for their problems. I never wanted to point it out directly as to not offend or upset them. It is very frustrating. Trying to get through to someone who has no self awareness.