Are you self aware enough to know when you are the problem

In your life? You are whats holding you back, you are whats stopping yourself from getting better
Your stubborness, self pitying, inability to take on any advice, your guardedness and self loathing.

Ive talked with many people who werent aware or just in denial that theyre the problem with their life. They were all so busy blaming everyone else for their problems. I never wanted to point it out directly as to not offend or upset them. It is very frustrating. Trying to get through to someone who has no self awareness.

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SW-User

I really try to be.
And I agree 100% with you... look no further than here, where every other comment or post is about what someone else did or is doing.

Isthisit · F

@SW-User yes i have noticed that alot here.

MoonlightLullaby

@SW-User

where every other comment or post is about whatsomeone elsedid or is doing.

It's sad and a bit pathetic. I hate those posts!

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby No surprise either as you don't lower yourself to that crap level!
It only adds bad feels to this site. And it's always one sided drivel, usually someone looking for others to justify them.

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MoonlightLullaby

@SW-User Yes, and the perpetual victim mentality repeats itself over and over as people flock to "save them"..... I back away from those types .

Sorry for the empty response above. I hit send with clumsy fingers ....
No wait..
It was my keyboards fault.😤

🤭

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby Lol, I have clumsy thumbs. 😁

the perpetual victim mentality repeats itself over and over as people flock to "save them"

Yep yep. They perpetuate the behavior. Emotional maturity and "emotional INTELLIGENCE" are rare things.

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OogieBoogie · F

@SW-User i love your reply 🤗

I would have said the same words but you said it for me .

Especially the part about

. I really try to be.

Its so hard to be self aware .

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby Lol! Sowyy, was in a hurry as usual. Of course it isn't your fault, Those key boards are just losers, always creating some kind of drama. 😂
You recognize your own behavior and I respect that. 👍

SW-User

@OogieBoogie Thanks a lot, it IS hard. It takes continual awareness.