Are you self aware enough to know when you are the problem

In your life? You are whats holding you back, you are whats stopping yourself from getting better
Your stubborness, self pitying, inability to take on any advice, your guardedness and self loathing.

Ive talked with many people who werent aware or just in denial that theyre the problem with their life. They were all so busy blaming everyone else for their problems. I never wanted to point it out directly as to not offend or upset them. It is very frustrating. Trying to get through to someone who has no self awareness.

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BrokenAbyss

Indeed. It might take me awhile, 😆 and some acceptance sometimes goes much farther than advice. I’m to the point I want to make my own damn mistakes. So when people start handing out advice, I’m critical of it. As is my right it’s my head. That might mean resistance because I feel underestimated often. Nobody really knows what anybodys life has been like. When try give advice, you have to be careful. Because you don’t know where someone’s mind is.

I try to simply acknowledge them. Because we are all human no matter our differences.

And people might be stubborn etc but they are learning. We are all learning. Nobody is winning or losing.

OogieBoogie · F

@BrokenAbyss i love the wisdom in this .
Especially about accepting people , rather than advising ot judging .

I wish i could remember to be all you have mentioned .