I wish I could leave SW now 😔 but I kinda need this place rn

I don't know what I need. Do I need to close myself off or just keep pretending shits okay?

Idk what to do

BlueVeins · 22-25

i remember one time in college when i wasn't doing well, i had this business casual sustainable industry conference to attend, and just showing up in my big boi suit and talking sustainability with the people helped a whole lot.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@BlueVeins that's so random but that sounds cool though 😅 I'd feel too out of place at something like that I think lol

BlueVeins · 22-25

@ChiefJustWalks honestly i think i got tricked by BP

SW-User

Pretending doesn't help you. It will work against you.
If you need a break, take a break.

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SW-User

@ChiefJustWalks Take it easy okay? Shut off everything and do something that doesn't need thinking and just be. Try to find something that just regulates your nervous system right now.
For me, meditation, deep breathing from the diaphragm, being in nature helps.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@SW-User I'm just laying in bed crying tbh.. hopefully that counts

SW-User

@ChiefJustWalks Crying is good, I believe. Why not put on some music along with it, switch off from here and everywhere, and just let it out. Just be.

midnightrose · F

Pretending can work if you're actively taking steps to be what you want to become. Without the action things will stay the same. I hope you're able to figure out what it is that you want and need.

Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

Perhaps be true to your feelings. It is the only thing that can set you free

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@Iwantyourhotwife what are feelings? 😅 I don't even know what mine are rn lol

astrosandorbits · 26-30, M

What's got you down man?

Nutshell29 · 26-30, F

The last thing you need to do is shut down. If it helps cry, scream, punch something, etc do whatever you need to. If you have my number still you know you can text me which I know you say you're bad at but I'm always here for ya

Classified · M

I mostly do the former with some posts on here, I think. 🤔

SW-User

I think that you become a lot more stable on SW when you take it for shits and giggles. It's somewhere to come for a bit of irreverent fun. When you take it for more than that you inevitably end up disappointed sooner or later.

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

@SW-User yeah.. it's not about the users or the people tbh. I'm just in a hard state of mind rn & don't know what's best for me at the moment 🙁 I'll decide later though

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