I saw this quote today…..

@SW-User you know what, in that case it’s his family and your most likely done with them so why bother. I am sure they see what he’s really like at times. I had to have my husband committed and my in-laws were livid with me. But they didn’t live in my house and have to deal with what I went through. They learned though.

Glad you are out of that situation.

@iamonfire696 yeah it’s sad cos I’ve never actually done anything to them personally, we’d go on holidays etc. knew them 25 years, now I’m the bad one. I’m ok with that though I’m so over it all.


.I’m sorry you had to deal with that, people have no idea what it’s like living with someone, so it’s easy to judge you. You have to do what’s best for you and the situation. Easy for someone looking in to think otherwise.

@SW-User well when I had to call the police because he was threatening to hurt himself with a hammer and he called his dad they were still pissed at me. How would anyone handle that and I had a 6 year old and a 4 month old baby.

I am still with him for now but I don’t even care what they think about me anymore so what does that say.

@iamonfire696 I’m sorry you deserve better, plan your exit, I did, I saved so I’d have enough money to live for a year of two.
How old are the kids?

@SW-User my kids are now 14 and 9 now. I am trying to sort it.

@iamonfire696 aw I hope you get sorted soon.it’s better on the other side.

@SW-User me too. Thanks 💖