How did you get over a heartbreak

I don’t think it’s something I ever really get over. It’s kind of always there teaching me in some way. Guiding me to new paths of healing and growing instead of living too much in the what if’s. But accepting it for what it is, feeling what demands to be felt, not feeding the anger and pain by placing blame on anyone, and bathing myself in a ton of light through distractions and things I find enjoyment in does help me get from one breath to the next.