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Gangstress · 41-45, F
You call the police.
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Gangstress · 41-45, F
@PrettyTroubles yes, you get protective custody, speak to family, friends, the more people know about the abuse, the easier it becomes for you to walk away. And you then also have support
if none of the above apply, contact a womens refuge centre, they will help and give you the best advice of how to move forward.
If you are getting abused and its been going on a while then please please do something
if none of the above apply, contact a womens refuge centre, they will help and give you the best advice of how to move forward.
If you are getting abused and its been going on a while then please please do something
PrettyTroubles · 26-30, F
@Gangstress thanks yeah sometimes it hard to see i feel trapped
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@PrettyTroubles I can imagine, please talk to someone - we have a few womens refuge centres here in the UK and I know they really help women break that cycle and they get them back to living their lives again,
I'm so sorry this is happening, please look after yourself and leave if you can.
I'm so sorry this is happening, please look after yourself and leave if you can.
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SW-User
Realizing you're in an abusive situation, and ending all contact with them.
RachelB · F
For me it was police and people around me seeing I was different in most ways.
PhoenixPhail · M
By not allowing it. I don't know what your circumstances are, but if you can take yourself away from somewhere or away from a person who is or might abuse you, that's the best way to escape abuse.
PhoenixPhail · M
@BigGuy2 Like anything else, it takes practice. But I know you can do it.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@PhoenixPhail what i'm get'n at, is that she may not be able to leave - financially - so she may have to put up with the abuse
PhoenixPhail · M
@BigGuy2 Yeah, that can be a hard situation.
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SW-User
Are you in a safe place now?
Do you need help?
Do you need help?
SatyrService · M
wait till you are alone for a few hours.
pack all your stuff in boxes and bags, and
GET OUT
call a friend to help,. rent storage till you can find the next home
there is NOTHING worthy in staying with abuse
if you send me the city you live in i will send you some help resources
pack all your stuff in boxes and bags, and
GET OUT
call a friend to help,. rent storage till you can find the next home
there is NOTHING worthy in staying with abuse
if you send me the city you live in i will send you some help resources
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SW-User
Once you get through the obvious, law enforcement and such, you escape by looking inward. You're the heroine of your own story and everything in your life made you who you are today and everything you are is beautiful and powerful.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
By any means necessary,
do you live together? then you need to leave
do yo live on your own? then forbid contact.
reach out for more details of how to make this happen
do you live together? then you need to leave
do yo live on your own? then forbid contact.
reach out for more details of how to make this happen
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
You don't. You take it and then become part of it and pass it on to the next generation.
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
Feel the importance of yourself first.
PrettyTroubles · 26-30, F
@TheOrionbeltseeker I wish I could but its like all I know and have been conditioned to is codependent relationships
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Being financially independent tends to help immeasurably
Pfuzylogic · M
Define your personal boundaries and defend them.
Byzantine · 51-55, M
Leave forever
PervertedPrincessOfDeath · 31-35, T
Shit in his bed
Lostpoet · M
Leave his ass behind
nevergiveup · M
Pack your bag and go.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
👍...If ever you need to chat 🤔 'a problem shared is a problem halved'
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
If it's easier, talk to me in PM's
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
What's happened, or happening
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
What kind of abuse - physical or mental - or BOTH