How does one escape abuse?

@PrettyTroubles yes, you get protective custody, speak to family, friends, the more people know about the abuse, the easier it becomes for you to walk away. And you then also have support

if none of the above apply, contact a womens refuge centre, they will help and give you the best advice of how to move forward.

If you are getting abused and its been going on a while then please please do something

@Gangstress thanks yeah sometimes it hard to see i feel trapped

@PrettyTroubles I can imagine, please talk to someone - we have a few womens refuge centres here in the UK and I know they really help women break that cycle and they get them back to living their lives again,
I'm so sorry this is happening, please look after yourself and leave if you can.

@BigGuy2 Like anything else, it takes practice. But I know you can do it.

@PhoenixPhail what i'm get'n at, is that she may not be able to leave - financially - so she may have to put up with the abuse

@BigGuy2 Yeah, that can be a hard situation.

@TheOrionbeltseeker I wish I could but its like all I know and have been conditioned to is codependent relationships