What do you feel when you are in love?
To me is a atmosphere like outside of my head that I can't stop thinking about. For example thinking of her a lot and it produces an aura.
31-35, M
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Nelladell · 80-89, F
Looking at it after a 66-year marriage --
I read that the "faling in love" feeling lasts about 36 months.
I had the usual feelings, including thinking I could never be happy without him. We married before the 36-month period was up, and our years were full and overflowing with raising our kidlins and seeing they were properly cared for.
Meanwhile, we loved each other. But as the years went by, we learned another kind of love. Deeper, Different. Much more true. Absolutely unconditional. Neither of us was married because being with the other gave us happiness. We were married because of unconditional love.
I read that the "faling in love" feeling lasts about 36 months.
I had the usual feelings, including thinking I could never be happy without him. We married before the 36-month period was up, and our years were full and overflowing with raising our kidlins and seeing they were properly cared for.
Meanwhile, we loved each other. But as the years went by, we learned another kind of love. Deeper, Different. Much more true. Absolutely unconditional. Neither of us was married because being with the other gave us happiness. We were married because of unconditional love.
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Nelladell · 80-89, F
@bijouxbroussard @Beautyisamonstrosity The love of later years was much more satisfying.
Nelladell · 80-89, F
@Beautyisamonstrosity I will just say that there is nothing more important to me than Love. Some people call it God's Love. Some people call it God. Some people call it Jesus' Love or Christ's Love. Other folks call it other things. It's what's behind the unconditional love learned in a good marriage. By whatever name, I want more and more of it.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Perhaps maybe I don’t know.
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@RebelFox when your in love it elevates your mind and your heart starts popping it brings pleasant feeling as when you are listening to music.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@Beautyisamonstrosity sounds intense. I just wonder if I’ve ever truly loved someone or if I’ve always just shined light on people who weren’t ready to come out of their shadows.
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@RebelFox I think you need to find people with similar hobbies and traits, morals and ethics.
InHeaven · F
that it's a lie.... 😄
InHeaven · F
@Beautyisamonstrosity well... being deeply in love many times , where every time I thought each one of them was my soulmate and once and for all, it turned out to be a lie. And still is. There is no love, only lust and a lie.
Beautyisamonstrosity · 31-35, M
@InHeaven define soul mate
InHeaven · F
@Beautyisamonstrosity you used the word "FEEL", it's a feeling... that you are one whole together...or that they were sent from above. Omgoodness I want to laugh at myself now 😄😄😄 and how dumb I was LMAO