How can you stop yourself from being someone's doormat?

I love this person so much and I'm always there for her and empathize with her every step of the way. But when I'm down, she seemed like she doesn't care at all. I am always available for her but that's not her case for me.

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checkoutanytime · 46-50, M

You can't, either they love you or they're using you as a comfort zone until the next thing.

CallistaSloane · 31-35, F

@checkoutanytime she says that I'm her best friend. We do fun things together, too. She's not always absent but I feel like I'm not getting the care I deserve. At first, I dont mind giving more. But I'm starting to get exhausted and drained.

checkoutanytime · 46-50, M

@CallistaSloane anything worthwhile is not a one way street. In my experience.

CallistaSloane · 31-35, F

@checkoutanytime I'm beginning to realize this now. It's been dragging for so long and my hope for this friendship is wearing thin.