I Want to Be a Better Person

I just don't do bad things because I just don't do them not because i'm a morallistically just human being.In fact i'm obsessively codependant towards this guy (Lets call him Davis). I don't allow Davis to have friends or speak to anybody and if he does speak to others I just tell him he didn't have my permission and thats it he says ok and its silence from there.But the point is the only reason I haven't locked him up in a small glass box and sewed his mouth shut is because I just haven't.Yet.So yeah, maybe thats something I should work on.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

First work on your self-worth. Then your insecurities won't get in the way of your thinking.
To fear been rejected or been alone has you so over needy to hold on tight to what you think will have you be happy.
This Davis, will move on then what? How will you cope?
Your first true love is your self-love.
Then you will complete and validate you.
Not one other person will have you feel love and secure.
That is your job for you.
Else you will always be the needy and insecure one.

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