I Am Afraid of Failure

@ozgirl512: yes, i agree 100%

@Ladulcevida: don't be scared of it, but learn from it ... Is it relationships?

@ozgirl512: yeah just about to do the most scariest thing of my life and a bit afraid of failing when it comes to that relationship.

@Ladulcevida: do you want to talk about it?

@ozgirl512: idk it's just I don't get how people do marriage. In 3 months I'm getting marry and since our family situation is not ideal I'm afraid that will bring lots of restrain in our marriage causing a fail marriage

@Ladulcevida: I'm not married, but I think having some fears is normal .. and if you didn't have them id think you weren't taking it seriously ... Marriage is about two people pulling together ... If you guys can do that I think you'll be ok

@ozgirl512: I hope so I just cant help my mind stop going directly to all the worst scenarios that could break us

@Ladulcevida: then think I'll ideas to get round them

@Ladulcevida: what sort of issues are you thinking of

his mother. she is disable so would live with us. but she is very special. she doesn't like me already and tries to get in between us. And there is things I don't agree with her causing lots of tension.

@Ladulcevida: ughh... I think you have problems then ... You are going to have to put your foot down from day 1

that's my fear i don't want to be another person's facts of # of fail marriages in the USA. I want to be one of the marriages that last. that can grow up old with him. have a kid with him or raise my brother with him.

@Ladulcevida: I think it might be hard ... Have you talked this over with your guy?

no don't want to stress him out more than he already is.

@Ladulcevida: I think you need to .. it's about your life together