How do you deal with setbacks?

I trust God in all things, but I have a responsibility to work with him and not be lazy. So if things have gone wrong, there's clearly something that I need to do to help put it right or consider whether what was planned was good in the first place. Blaming others, relying on someone else to sort your problems out, or simply rushing into doing something for the sake of doing it are all likely to end up with a worse situation than you started with.

I can't possibly not dwell on it unless I'm super busy because it's literally occupying my mind 24/7.

Ask friends until I get the answer I secretly want 🤣🤣