I Have Self Esteem Issues

I still struggle with feelings of rejection, as a child i was rejected by my best friend. For two years we did everything together, one day out of the blue she looked at me and said your not good enough to be my friend. That statement haunts me to this day. I sometimes wonder if she realized how much her words hurt me and if she regrets how she never spoke to me again. I've never had a great self esteem. These issues have been carried into my current relationships. It's hard to fully accept that i am worthy of love.

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

That sounds like a learned statement from your friend. She was told this, or was convinced of this by someone else.

Absolutely traumatic. A decision sprung from ignorance. "Et tu, Bruh?"

See, you aren't good enough to be her friend. You're better. You know why I know this? Because unlike her, you know that you don't do what she did to a friend, or anyone else, for that matter. That's inhuman. Last you checked, you were human, right? So you tried to be friends with a troglodyte and it didn't work out. I'm just curious why you are trying to prove her right, when you are better than her, just on your code of conduct...?

Unless, of course, you [i] would[/i] do what she did to someone else. Then you aren't good enough to be a friend because you are a douchebag. Just like her.

Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F

@GwydionFrost :(

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Sassygirl42 so which is it? Are you the type of person who would do that to someone, like she did? Or are you a better friend than that?

Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F

@GwydionFrost i am not

Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F

You should know that by the evidence of my words

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Sassygirl42 then let the troglodyte go. The world is yours. Take it. 🤗