I Have Self Esteem Issues

Now I don't give a damn if people don't like me I'm used to it now

That sucks. I firmly believe guys need to be taught to respect women

With a few more votes of confidence you might grow stronger 😃😃

You are beautiful. Those guys are a bunch of insecure sadsack losers.

Really thin? Thats still, what is wrong with people these days. I have always been a thin guy. Have always gotten people poking at me "you need to eat more". Except now, people are like, not eating enough is a nice problem to have. haha
Dont worry about your weight. Anything from thin to a bit chubby is fine. Seriously though, you look good in your picture.

But why? My first thought is what the heck is wrong with people.

Why your gorgeous? Happy mothers day!

@Beige22: I'm not surprised that you feel insecure with that history. Although it may sound trite, learning to love yourself is the best place to start.

@CathDonSW: I don't disagree with you but I think rather that PEOPLE ought to be taught to respect OTHER people.

Can I ask what names. I was thinking maybe they were just bad flirts but threatening to hit you. That is not flirting. Very sorry this has happened to you. If that is you in the picture you are very pretty and have nothing to worry about.

where has this been happening? like during breaks in between class in high school? During dates? If you could elaborate on the entire context end be more specific about the origins of the problem it would be a lot easier to give thoughts and feedback.

so unprocessed childhood events puts a damper on any possibility of starting new relationships with the opposite sex? How bad is it? Do you give out a "vibe" which cause men to stay away? Or do you shy away from any intimacy?

8 yrs ago I was a Late bloomer I looked the opposite of what I look like today

Yes I too am curious how you were bullied? Did you look the same then as you do now. Obviously younger but basically the same?

That's not right, I hope you find the best caring person for you 😁

Instead of how you looked on yourself then, lets talk about how you visualize yourself now?

When I was 13 I use to weigh 90lbs I was flat & I didn't know what tools to style my hair with

Im sorry. Thats how i was when i was young. I know how you feel

sorry sweetie. you should be admired and appreciated.

You have no reason to feel self conscious or insecure.

They must have been jealous that they didn't have you

have you ever had a relationship with a guy? short or long term?

It was in middle school During breaks or inside the classroom

They would call me names or they would threaten to hit me

Cause I wouldn't dress myself up before

I don't really talk much anymore

I've had short term relationships

how exactly have they bullied you?

thats really bad

I wouldn't bully you

Cause I was really thin

Thanks for ur support:')

Thanks(:

Hugs..