If the majority of our time is spent looking at others, worrying, analyzing and policing their behavior, we will have little time for self awareness and improvement. Our own motivations/behavior. Or even projecting our faults onto others. We NEVER change or fix anything by concentrating on others (perceived) issues. Focusing there doesn't strengthen our own mental or emotional maturity and intelligence, it weakens it.
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I've spent a lot of time and energy and effort over the last 25 - 30 years looking inward, in search of solutions to personal problems. Some questions have been answered, some solutions have been found. Answers gained through introspection need to be implemented through action and persistence to gradually bring improvements and success. Stupid modern mainstream society and media discourages introspection.