Just Some Advice

I used to get so wrapped up on here with who said what about whom. I got upset when i got blocked, I got mad when I was betrayed.

None of this matters to me anymore. When I am on vacation, i don't log in. I don't think about this place and if someone doesn't like me, who cares?

I will never let this place rule my world. There are so many unwell people on here. Don't let them ruin your life. Take a break and enjoy the real world.

It took me a long time to learn boundaries and to cut ties with toxic people. A hard lesson learned

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Sojournersoul · M

You can’t take this place too serious. If someone wants to block me or stop talking, so be it. Can’t waste time or energy on that.

akindheart · 61-69, F

@Sojournersoul exactly. i couldn't reconcile why people were so mean and why they did the things they did. it is like rationalizing the irrational.

Sojournersoul · M

@akindheart I just ignore them and move on.

akindheart · 61-69, F

@Sojournersoul i didn't for a long time. i wondered why they would back stab me. then i realized i was dealign with some sick people.

Sojournersoul · M

@akindheart you have to be so careful who you let in but often find out they were not worth it

akindheart · 61-69, F

@Sojournersoul trust me i found that out