@fidra2 the idea of you writing it now, means your still strong . not just because you,v shared this with everyone, but also because you still there i just hope you get strength and pass this moments on
Plum! As someone who sees a beautiful young lady with a lot of promise, this is so hard for me to wrap my head around! But I’m so glad you’ve moved away from that in five years time. These are the best years of your life. Enjoy them and someday become as old as me. I’ll even lend you a grey beard if you’d like. 😏
So glad you are here, I just passed my 4 year "milestone" and I use it as a point to reflect on what got me to that point and how far I have come since.
Very honest and open post from a very strong and brave individual. Thanks for sharing and I hope any who see it that may have their own daily struggles find from it their own strength from reading your encouraging words. Big hugs
@PlumBerries dont be. you dont got to worry about it or how i feel im just being a bij. Like i said whats more important is that youre happier who cares about me haha or how i feel. Im just glad youre in a better place mentally beautiful.
What made you stop cutting yourself and trying to self harm? I’m sure several things over time contributed but is there anything that sticks out in particular that was a significant turning point?
@12345abcbeing hospitalised the second time for 2 months. I never wanted to go through that again, so that was good motivation and I also was really embarrassed by the scars and couldn't hide them much by the end of it.. Mostly though it was because of my family and all the stress I was putting on them. one of them had to be around me at all times otherwise I would either self harm or try committing suicide.. it was certainly taking its toll on them all
Thanks for sharing your life like that. It could save someone else’s life or just be a light at the end of the tunnel for someone. I’m so happy you’re doing so well now. ❤️@PlumBerries
yeah it does. I don't really try to please anyone with those certain things. Its my opinions and if anyone gets annoyed over them, meh doesn't effect me at all
