need advice I wanna know if im being unreasonable or not, i need advice. so i usually go to...

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I wanna know if im being unreasonable or not, i need advice. so i usually go to gigs with this one particular friend and on rare occasions my best friend tags along, and there's this gig on Sunday which is only 2 days away but we've been talking...

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Blackberry1 · 16-17

No. You are not a bad friend. If you can't reach someone elses expectations and standards don't!

NewRaven · 51-55, F

Please don’t let her manipulation tactics take up your energy. Just because she’s trying to make you feel bad doesn’t mean that you should feel bad. If you’ve had these plans for months, follow your plan and enjoy the shows.

ihateyou · 18-21, F

@NewRaven thank you :) good advice

olderuncle944 · 70-79, M

@NewRaven I agree ,you planed it for a long time and she docent care a enough about you to go then dont worry she is the problem not you.

Foodie60 · 36-40, M

@NewRaven exactly

FaeLuna · 31-35, F

Just tell her you're going for the whole duration of the concert starting at 1, and if she wants to meet you there when she's ready, she is more than welcome to.

JonLosAngeles66 · M

Not a bad friend. Do what you want.

Budwick · 70-79, M

I don't even know what you're asking!

SW-User

No, she's being unreasonable. Even moreso if you've paid for this gig. Stick to your guns. If she has other commitments then she's the one who has to adapt or sacrifice, not you.

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