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Newstart77 · 46-50, F
First of all I am sorry for your loss. Even though it was in 2013 to be dealing with stuff like this brings up emotions. Second it's been almost 5 years. Anyone with your father may have borrowed money from would have known before now of his passing and have searched for repayment earlier. You are not accountable on any level. Be strong and don't let anyone con you.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@Newstart77 Thank you for that warm and heartfelt response I appreciate that you took the time and effort to think about it and reply.

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Capt11 · 46-50, M
@SageAdvice thanks
Casheyane · F
@SageAdvice Can this be said about properties under the dead's name? Apparently in our country, the family left behind is required to pay taxes for properties owned by the dead.
DEFINITELY NOT.

Debt collectors will guilt you into paying your loved ones debt. Once the debt holder dies, they're fucked.

You are under no obligation to pay for a deceased person's debt.


They will try to get you to pay any amount. Even if as little as $5, the moment you pay that small amount of the deceased person's debt (Or any), 100% of the debt is then placed under your name. And it is then your problem to deal with.

They're just trying to trick you into paying for something they can no longer collect from the person themselves.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@LithiumDrop thank you for that information
Apologise on his behalf and tell them you are not responsible for his debts.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@InOtterWords Thank you for your advice and taking time to send it to me.
Jdubtwo · 31-35, M
No. A fathers sins should not be visited upon on his son.
Golds15 · 18-21, F
His dad didn't do anything wrong.
Jdubtwo · 31-35, M
It’s just a saying. Don’t take it literally.
Jdubtwo · 31-35, M
@humongous I am not exactly certain how my statement is idiotic. Had he co-signed my statement would not be applicable obviously. However, I think we can reasonably assume that he didn’t co-sign anything else he would have been sent to collections much earlier. Capt11 is likely talking about informal loans.
SW-User
Usually when someone dies, someone that the deceased knows is named Executor and has legal control of their Estate and any claims for payment of debts have to go through them and proof has to be put forward. I'm sure it's probably the same in most countries. If you're not the Executor then it's up to them to contact whoever that person is and supply proof but you're not personally responsible.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@SW-User I don't think it is about the money I think it is about the time . He died in 2013 that is why I shared that detail. At some point should it stop.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@SW-User I appreciate you for taking the time to reply and share your point of view
SW-User
@Capt11 Please to help if I can. To answer your other question yes there would definitely be a cut-off time when claims can be made, but I don't know when that would be, but if they are being a nusicance I'd maybe just get some legal advice on it so you deter them, perhaps a letter telling them that they have no legal claim etc.
SW-User
No don't pay shit

Disrespectful assholes
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@SW-User Thank you for taking the time to reply I appreciate it
It seems a little extraordinary.
It's possible that some people who think you've inherited a packet have been gossiping and some want to try to take advantage.
But maybe your father was in financial trouble, or was financially irresponsible, and left behind him a trail of secrets.
Find out the law. There is probably a statute of limits on bad debts.
If the limit has not been reached, ask them to show you documentary proof.
In some situations, proof may not be available. Then you would have to treat each case on its own merits, but do ask trick questions, to which only you know the answer, to try to get a sense of the truth.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@hartfire thank you for taking the time to respond I appreciate it. Your words are powerful.
I would politely let them know you're not responsible for you're dads debts. (You have already paid a huge debt by serving our country)
iamnikki · 31-35, F
No you should not pay. YOU are not the one who supposedly loaned them money. Tell them to accept their loss
TheProphet · M
Debts die with the dead. You owe nothing. Tell them to fuck off.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@TheProphet Thank you for taking the time to send me your input
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Ignore them. You are under no obligation.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@Livingwell Thank you for taking the time to send me your advice
Maggimay · 46-50, F
No proof. No money.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@Maggimay I take a person at their word my problem is not that. my problem is how can somebody come to me almost 5 years later asking for something like that .
Livingwell · 61-69, M
@Capt11 They can’t. There is a time period to make claims. @PerthSurfer explained it nicely above. In the case of my mom, I was the executor. A public posting is usually made requesting anyone with a claim to come forth. If they fail to do so in the allotted time..too bad. Probate is closed.
Maggimay · 46-50, F
@Capt11 i think they are trying their luck.
therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
Only pay them if there is documentation proving this and you received money from your father in his will that will cover his so called debts. You have no personal responsibility regarding his debts but doing the right thing with the money you inherited if you did inherit any money would be prudent and virtuous.
pennynoodles · 56-60, F
This is entirely your prerogative. You do not need to pay them the money back as it was your father's debt, not yours. However, if you received money from his estate and these people are genuine, then perhaps the fair thing would be to pay them what your father owed.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@pennynoodles Thank you kindly for taking the time to respond I appreciate your effort android vice.
BeachBum · F
I imagine that in an instamce where you are asked to pay suxh a debt, that solid proof of the debt would be required. Have a chat to a legal advisor or google the laws surrounding estate debts that apply in your country.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@BeachBum thank you for taking the time to respond I appreciate it.
akindheart · 61-69, F
they need to make a claim against the estate. it has to be in proper form and documented thru the court. if the time has passed, you don't owe anything
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@akindheart thank you for sharing your advice
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Capt11 i know this first hand. you are welcome!
Johnb123 · 51-55, M
Don't pay them, the debts that existed were someone else problem, not yours. If they continue to bother you endlessly ask the police for help.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@Johnb123 thanks for the messages I appreciate it.
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Capt11 · 46-50, M
@RippinKlouds Going to court never ends well for either party. Thank you for taking the time to reply.
You are not personally responsible for the debts of your father. If you were the executor of his estate they might sue [b]that[/b], otherwise, they’re SOL.
Capt11 · 46-50, M
@bijouxbroussard Thanks for your advice
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Capt11 · 46-50, M
@humongous Yes I have retained an attorney. I was told that the statues of limitations for a deceased person in most States is 1 year. In some States it is 2 but in no state is it more than 3.
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