i wonder why i don't get the same validation - acknowledgment i see others get online
or sometimes i don't get responses at all, and i do seek support and validation for what i say, for the same reason others do.
so why does that person get all this validation, support, acknowledgment, responses, approval etc but i often DON'T? - what makes them or that person different from me? do you think that person is better than me, or more worthy? - could that person go through the immense struggle & adversity that i have been through the whole of my adult life?? no they couldn't, so this makes me BETTER than them.
also when i don't get responses , validation, acknowledgment etc on social media i start to think deeply about it and wonder why? a little paranoid too, is it because ' people don't see me as i see myself?'
and if people don't , why don't they see me as how i see myself? what have they been told about me and by who?
it drives me crazy a lot, can anybody help me or offer advice/ reassurance about this? and how to deal with it? because as you can see i get very stressed out about it.
so why does that person get all this validation, support, acknowledgment, responses, approval etc but i often DON'T? - what makes them or that person different from me? do you think that person is better than me, or more worthy? - could that person go through the immense struggle & adversity that i have been through the whole of my adult life?? no they couldn't, so this makes me BETTER than them.
also when i don't get responses , validation, acknowledgment etc on social media i start to think deeply about it and wonder why? a little paranoid too, is it because ' people don't see me as i see myself?'
and if people don't , why don't they see me as how i see myself? what have they been told about me and by who?
it drives me crazy a lot, can anybody help me or offer advice/ reassurance about this? and how to deal with it? because as you can see i get very stressed out about it.
46-50, M
