How do I get bf to help out with chores? [I Need Advice]

My boyfriend and I moved into our new apartment about 2 months ago. Things are mostly fine except I tend to do most of the chores. Now when I ask him to do a chore he'll do it without complaint but he never just gets up and does anything on his own. I'm the one who keeps the house mostly clean. I think part of the problem was his mother is very sweet but she was very relaxed and laid back in raising him and he was not made to do many things around the house. Any advice?

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ninalanyon · 61-69, T

As a boyfriend he might be worth keeping but he is not long term partner material unless you really can change his way of thinking.

If he continues to think and behave this way you will always be the skivvy in the partnership.