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A girl in my boyfriend's life is bothering me.. [I Need Advice]

My bf's cousin has a girlfriend who has been around the family for years. She's not well liked by a good majority of my bf's family. She has a major drinking problem and she has had issues with violence. She lost her last job due to beating up her coworker. When she drinks she tends to get rude & make dumb decisions including cheating on her bf 3 times.

Now my bf's cousin is wonderful. She's the only problem. Now while she's nice to me, she's constantly trying to get my boyfriend to hang out at her place with his cousin. Almost every night. Almost always involves alcohol. My bf always trys to go because the girl will be mad if he doesn't and she'll continue to bug him. My boyfriend is a sweetheart and won't say no to her but I feel she's such a bad influence and I dont want him out late with her.


What am I supposed to do??
SW-User
Seems like it’s your boyfriend who needs to make better decisions. Yeah being a sweetheart and all that is fine, we have heard all that before. If he had strong sense of right and wrong and how it affects you, he’d know and do better. Talk to him and if things don’t change you know what to do.
Ohbabe · 22-25, F
your boyfriend is crossing a line between sweetheart and hanging out with a cheater. Its not you that needs to do something. Either he needs to not go or you both go
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Ugh, she sounds horrible. I'm not sure what you can do, but trust your guy to make the right decision.
SW-User
just talk to him about how you feel...see how he responds ....
REMsleep · 41-45, F
I just do not comprehend why your boyfriend feels compelled to hang out so often with her especially if its not even his cousin thats doing the asking.
Thats not being nice, thats something else.
Your bf should care more about your feelings than hers.
Look into wether or not this behavior from him will be a problem in the future in other situations as well. He should have sense to avoid such a toxic person and alcohol.

 
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