I Need Advice On What To Do

Recently, I just dumped one of my best friends that I've been friends with for about over 3 years.

We've been having trust issues and she's always talking behind my back, I end up finding out

though. She did something that really hurt my feelings that I'm still not overwith either. She

constantly makes me sad and anxious. She says I make her sad too. I ignored her for a few days

and she flipped. I told her we couldn't be best friends anymore and she agreed. Now we barely

talk. Did I make the right decision? I sometimes feel a little empty without her but I am less anxious

and I feel slightly better. Its just a little hard

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Justpeaceandlove · 61-69, F

I think you made the right decision for you. You can always change your mind later. I think you should never feel guilty about doing something that's right for you at any time!

Sabrina01 · 36-40, F

Always go with your gutt feeling. If she has done something to hurt you. She will do it again and the next time it might be worse. I would rather have no friends than have friends that hurt me. You will be sad for a few weeks but you will get over her. Just keep yourself busy. Get involved in sporting activities or other groups where you can make new friends. Maybe your next best friend might be a male. Once someone has lost your trust it's very hard to re earn that trust. Maybe spend more time with your family, cousins etc. She might be jealous of you. You did the right thing.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

If you are not enhancing each other's life, and nourishing your soul, then best to be apart.

jeancolby · 31-35, F

Its simple.............don't listen to all the fancy bull crap. If she can't be trusted she's not a friend, she's an acquaintance.

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SW-User

It might hurt but sometimes a friend can be more harm than good. I had to stop spending time with my best friend as he was too aggressive and quick to anger. I didn't want to end our friendship but we just weren't compatible as friends.

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