Our relationship isn't exciting. [I Need Advice]
How do you get that feeling of excitement back into a relationship if you guys are now comfortable with each other? If the relationship is out of the honeymoon stage?
26-30, F
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Create new settings. Go somewhere in the deep wilderness, create a camp with a lovely warm fire and cozy sleeping bags.
Try fantasy role plays. The more you get into acting the roles with sincerity, the better it will work. If he can't go for that, fantasise in your head.
Make sure you openly discuss your feelings about whatever's going on in your lives. Learn good communication and resolve quarrels so that at the end you understand each other better. Make sure there are no residual bits of anger or resentment from old quarrels; anger kills love.
Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of exercise (fitness affects sex), get enough sleep, and if possible avoid or resolve excessive stress. Spend quality time doing nice things together at least one day a week.
Be tender and affectionate between times of love making.
Try fantasy role plays. The more you get into acting the roles with sincerity, the better it will work. If he can't go for that, fantasise in your head.
Make sure you openly discuss your feelings about whatever's going on in your lives. Learn good communication and resolve quarrels so that at the end you understand each other better. Make sure there are no residual bits of anger or resentment from old quarrels; anger kills love.
Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of exercise (fitness affects sex), get enough sleep, and if possible avoid or resolve excessive stress. Spend quality time doing nice things together at least one day a week.
Be tender and affectionate between times of love making.