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My guy friend is ignoring my texts and emails! [I Need Advice]

Ever since he started his summer class online, he has been on video chat less. I mean I understand education goes first but he can at least take a break. He hasn’t been answering any of my emails or texts? I mean he did text back and said he has a LOT of homework due this Friday like 6 assignments! That’s a lot for a five week course.
I emailed him an hour ago if he wants to chat with us on zoom tonight.
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SW-User
I am in the same boat girl. I feel you... I can't take this! I just sent mine a message saying that he is strong enough to overcome whatever is challenging him and goodbye. I just deleted his number. He's online but not replying to me!
SW-User
@SW-User Um, that was smart.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User Wow. If my guy friend can’t make time for me, I’m done. I don’t care how busy he is! 😡😡😡😡
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User Well she has a point! If friends think school is more important than friendship, why be friends?!
SW-User
@AutismGirl18 I understand how you feel. He has literally been online for the past couple of DAYS and my messages still aren't opened. I even shout him out on our summer class group chat like 2 hours ago. He read it and did not reply 😣 I literally just said, @Ryan are you alive? I hope this isn't one of your jokes because this one isn't funny. Everyone saw it. No response from him.
SW-User
@AutismGirl18 Friends should tolerate things like this. Stuff happens, school is important. I have never turned my back on any fiend just cause they were busy. How long has it been? A day even? Buckle up people.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User Wow what a jerk,”. No offense! I hate when people don’t respond.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User Well last time I heard from him was last Friday. I guess I’m not important to him.
SW-User
@AutismGirl18 Can I pm you? We're supposed to be "more than friends" but I told him I am still deciding so we didn't make it official but. This is utter disrespect in my opinion. I am now allowing myself to take bullshit from ANY man. I deserve better!
SW-User
@AutismGirl18 Wow! Three days! My mistake burn all pictures of him. Delete his number and all texts. Any gifts he gave you, to the fire.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User See now do you understand?
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@SW-User yeah you sure can
SW-User
@SW-User She can do as she pleases! Do not devalue the way she is feeling!
SW-User
@SW-User Um, he told you he wanted to be more then friends and you are still deciding. Do you maybe think he is giving you time to figure things out?
SW-User
@SW-User Whatever it is, whomever he has been speaking to for days as opposed to me, should be his girlfriend. I'm fed up!
SW-User
@SW-User Cool. Dump him. Never speak to him again.
SW-User
@SW-User He's in my class so that may be difficult. But I am saying no to being his girlfriend because I would never know his true intention and I am getting a feeling that he only raised that question because he thinks that's the key to getting sex.
SW-User
@SW-User Drop the class. Become a nun.
SW-User
@SW-User Whatever the reason for your sarcasm, I am not offended. Enjoy the rest of your day.
SW-User
@SW-User Who is being sarcastic? He is not talking to you. Burn all bridges. Close all doors. The ship has sailed. The relationship you had is dead. Game over, the final tallies are in. Roll credits. The final bell has been rung. It's kaput.

Forget the possibility of anyone actually being to busy at the moment. They should drop everything they are doing and spend time with you. I mean you a re definitely so delightful, who wouldn't piss their future or career away to just to spend time texting with you.
SW-User
@SW-User Thanks. Goodnight! I am sure you are definitely very delightful too.
SW-User
@SW-User You don't know the entire story. But your advice has been noted. I hope whenever your significant other is concerned because they have not heard from you in a long time, you would be gentleman enough to at least say you are busy and you will get back to them at your earliest convenience.
SW-User
@SW-User Oh I am sure I am not as delightful as you. At least I am not ignoring you. I will always make sure I promptly reply to any messages sent my way,.
SW-User
@SW-User Oh definitely, even like say the house is on fire and I am calling the fire department. I will put that on hold immediately just to fire off a text and let them know I will get back to them shortly.
SW-User
@SW-User Great!
SW-User
@SW-User I thought you would approve.