I Need Advice

@Zeusdelight thank you

@TallGirlLayla Any time. I trust things have got ok for you.

@Zeusdelight I can't message you. It says "You're not allowed to view this profile"

@Zeusdelight I see another person has trouble PM ing you. I cannot even view your file. That is fine if it is your choice. If it is not you need to adjust your settings:)

@TallGirlLayla Same with me. I'll check my settings.

@Zeusdelight Nothing in my settings. How about yours?

@Zeusdelight Let me check

@TallGirlLayla That would be good. Another thought, have you ever had a different username?

@Zeusdelight everything is fine

@TallGirlLayla Well I can't view your profile and you can't view mine, so it is very strange. If you want to chat, we'll have to find another way? You haven't any age filters?

@Zeusdelight No but here's my story: So when I was nine, she walked out on us. She wanted to have her own life and she moved to another country. She lives in Canada. I haven't seen her since I was nine. I'm 17 about to be 18 in April. She barely calls us. She never called us on our birthdays, never thanks us for the gifts I sent her....nothing. She wasn't there for me for my first period, me graduating middle school, my first dance....NOTHING. When I call her, she NEVER calls back.
Anyways so I had a talk with my best friend from high school last week and she seemed puzzles. She said, "Really? Well we're talking about a woman that walked out on her family without a single goodbye."
I kept telling her it isn't like that. She didn't just LEAVE. She sent letters and said goodbye.
She was like, "Did you ever think about me? What about me? What the hell am I suppose to do while you're in Canada? You're thinking about a woman that you wanna live with and it's not going to work." She has a lot of people to hang with but she prefers only ME.
Then she said, "I don't wanna sound blunt so don't take it the wrong way. Why would you wanna stay with a woman that made it clear she doesn't even want you? You're just going to get hurt. She doesn't care about you."
I can't believe she said that to me. I was hurt. Do you agree with my best friend?

@Zeusdelight

You aren't allowed to interact with minors in private.

Bypassing the filter can lead to suspension.

@TallGirlLayla

Sometimes it is best to let go of people who aren't ready nor willing to be a part of our lives. But only you are capable of deciding that for yourself.

@TallGirlLayla Very hard to say. Your best friend knows me much better than I. What do you think?

@Miram Thanks, I didn't know that. She has talked to you. It is a hard situation for her.

@Zeusdelight I am happy to discuss this with you here. It only creates trouble if we go to pms. This is not PMs.

@Miram I can't let go. I want my mom.

@TallGirlLayla Tis very difficult. What do you ant from her?

@TallGirlLayla

That's entirely up to you.

@Zeusdelight A mother/daughter relationship.

@TallGirlLayla It does take two people to have one of them. Sadly, I am not sure she has shown you she wants one.