I Need Advice

I have a sibling who is currently staying with me. I am not happy with this decision cause she's cramping my style and I struggled to get this apartment for myself and to get away from my dysfunctional family. >:( I sound horribly selfish i know but it's not cool growing up a family push-over...anyway my sibling is giving me an ultimatum either they stay til winter time or I co-sign an aparapartment on their behalf! 😤😤😤 I'm in a tough spot and can't help them right now...hell they're not even suppose to be at my place so I'm risking my roof. Those who've followed me on my random and angry posts may understand that I don't like my family and I refuse to follow in their dysfunctional footsteps...on constantly relying on people for their gain! I don't know what to do and I can't kick them out cause I just hate being mean especially towards family. Im sorry it's a mess of a post but idk where else to go or what else to say at this point.

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

Depending upon the laws of your jurisdiction and how long the sibling has been staying with you, she may or may not have any legal right to continue staying with you. If she doesn't, you can simply kick her out, assuming she is an adult.

If she may have some right to be there, due to the length of time she has lived there, you could always offend her out. Start by ignoring her and behave in your own apartment exactly as you would if she wasn't there. Be naked, rent a pet <whatever animal she is most afraid of>, play music she doesn't like, watch scary movies (or whatever) she doesn't like, If she is racist, get a friend of whatever race she hates the most and pretend to date him/her. Rent/borrow the noisiest musical instrument you don't know how to play, and practice when she needs to sleep. In short, turn your own sanctuary into her living hell. She will move.

Of course, if she is not an adult, consult a lawyer.

KunaiVax · 41-45, M

I dont like to pass judgment when i know nothing about them, so i wont. But i will advise you do NOT co sign for them.
Ive had issues with my family in the past (wish my EP stories were still around)
All i can say is put yourself first and try to gradually change the way you think (as in stop worrying what others think about you)

aradia11 · 61-69, F

Grow a hard heart....Its enough for you to take care of yourself. Tell the sibling to take a flying leaping lizard SH--T.
If they arevthst bad I would move to another state.