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I Need Advice

Hi,
For the past two days, a crazy man has been bothering me.
It started with him joining me and my friend at my place Friday night. I was super drunk, I do not remember why I allowed this man into my apartment.
My friend left, and I ended up alone with this man.I had to physically kick him out, which took me an hour, because I'm not skilled at physically removing someone from a place.
Next morning I heard a phone ring, it was his that was under my couch. He was outside and I handed him the phone under the gate.
Right after, he called me and I answered but soon hung up because he said some crazy things.
He has been calling me since. 20 times on Saturday. 18 times yesterday, and it's looking like it will be the same today.
The reason I'm not blocking his number is because I want to know when he will be losing interest. Both days when I came home from work he has come outside my apartment shouting my name . I did have to enter the street he was at, 3 times. He didn't follow me though, he just sat on the street shouting my name and some things I didn't understand.
Does anyone have experience with this? Will it pass or should I confront him.
I told him first time when he called that I had no interest. And I have been ignoring him completely. And I was obviously very angry when I kicked him out.
Any advice or similar experiences would be very appreciated !
Throughobstacles · 26-30, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 I was blacked out, but my friend told me that this man was accompanying me when my friend met me that night. I'm guessing that I was just polite when he probably started talking to me as I was waiting for my friend.
As sober, it's very clear that he is someone to stay away from. But I don't know why I was nice to him when drunk.
I'm definitely scared of drinking again 😅
Why did your friend leave you with a stranger?@Throughobstacles
Throughobstacles · 26-30, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 He said he has issues with thinking people don't want to hang out with him and he had thought we didn't want to hang out with him.
I don't remember him leaving.
But I've made it clear now that he should have never left.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Do not talk to him or interact with him in any way. According to Gavin DeBecker, a world class threat assessment expert, each time you talk to him or give him a reaction, you buy yourself approximately 6 more weeks with him.

Keep a log of his activities w/videos or photos if possible. After a while, you can show this record to the police.

Meanwhile for future safety, do two things:

Stop drinking to the point of blackouts or unconsciousness.

Read:
The Gift of Fear
by Gavin DeBecker
This is a short, very readable book. I promise you won't be bored, and you will learn a lot that you would not learn anywhere else about how to stay safe and how to avoid bad people.
TexChik · F
Definitely call the police before you find yourself in a dire situation .
Throughobstacles · 26-30, F
They do sell that, thank you for the tip! ;)
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TexChik · F
@Throughobstacles it doesn’t permanently damage the eye but requires a doctors intervention to put the fire out
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Throughobstacles You also carry a noisemaking device to call attention to the situation and startle him if he tries to touch you.
xixgun · M
I have no similar experiences as I have never gotten that drunk.
Step 1) Call the police
Step 2) Visit your local gun dealer

When seconds count, the police are just minutes away.

 
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