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I Need Advice

I need advice. What i want to talk about is sexually inclined and this is something i need your advice on. First of all, i want to admit to myself that i am bot perfect. I am not all good in totality of my personality. I am trying to be as normal as i can, but, there are somethings that disturb me. And i want my these wrong thoughts to just go. I honestly don't know why i'm still alive. My problem is, i have never had any form of intimacy with a girl for a long time. I've never been in a relationship. And it kind of just bothers me in a strange way. I know that i might not even need a relationship now, but, there are moments in my life that, put me in a state or mood, were i feel so bad. I don't know how to balance my ability to be happy. I don't have people i can easily want to call, because, if i was to call someone, it would have to be a girl. And the girls i like, don't see me that way. So, i really, really don't know what to do, to just live normally, without having any need to worry about a girl. I'm the type of person that likes doing things, or i usually am busy doing something, or thinking about something. But i'm not able to always keep myself busy at every point in time. The most annoying part is when i get tired after a day of doing things, i come back and feel the need to be with a girl or communicate with a girl. I actually long to know what it feels like to be kissed by a girl or to be with a girl, and it is annoying because, it makes me feel bad. I don't chase girls, because, i don't think i can even have the time to do that. I can't even thin k of such a thing. So, how can someone like me survive in this situation? I need something that can help me. I really don't know what to do. How can i stay happy and balanced, since i don't have girls i can communicate with daily, i don't call any,because i don't have a steady on' phone.
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Picklebobble · 56-60, M
It sounds as though you'd need to re-organise your life.
If you have created a world because there's no woman in it. You need to create another one that would give you the time to accommodate one !
It would be unreasonable to expect a woman to just fit in with whatever you have going on.
After that, it depends how you want to go about it !
You could try the way most of us do it.
Making friends, being socially active via a club or organisations
Maybe a dating company. They might try and match your interests to a woman on their books with similar outlook in life.
RoyX54 · 36-40, M
@Piclebobble Thank you very much for your advice :) Your words are really true :) I haven't had the time to think about a dating company. And i don't know if it's something i would like to try and even keep up with. I really need to reorganize my life. Lol. Well, i hope things get better for me :)
Picklebobble · 56-60, M
So do I !! :)
RoyX54 · 36-40, M
@Piclebobble Lol!