SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
Leave him, cause right now youre an option.
xxMisfitxx · 22-25
@SpaceCreature I have explained my worries about this and he assures me he isnt trying to choose. he just cant give me all of him if he has these feelings.. he wants then to go away he just doesnt know how too. and i understand where hes coming from in that perspective. he cant pretend it isnt happening and hes hurting too with this... i can see it... i know that every tear isnt fake and i believe him when he says he loves me... but this does still go through my head.
TexChik · F
If you aren’t good enough nowto be his “ one and only “. Will you ever be?
Sounds like you are the contingency plan in case it doesn’t work out with the other girl. Don’t put up with that . Take the heart break now... if he were in love with you , this wouldn’t be happening .
Sounds like you are the contingency plan in case it doesn’t work out with the other girl. Don’t put up with that . Take the heart break now... if he were in love with you , this wouldn’t be happening .
xxMisfitxx · 22-25
@TexChik I have talked to him about this and said im not gonna be your back up but he says he doesnt wanna try and get her ... i trust him but my head is telling me to leave and my heart is saying to stay
TexChik · F
@xxMisfitxx the heart can never be trusted in this type of thing . Trust your head ...
BehindHerTears · 31-35, F
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Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@xxMisfitxx Then you should feel confident.
xxMisfitxx · 22-25
@Mugin16 I dont know why i dont,its just sometimes i feel like its not gonna get better you know. HE said he tried to sort it out for like a week before he told me... and he doesnt think itll go away. What if hes just saying all this to make me happy?
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
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xxMisfitxx · 22-25
@lancashirelady50 I know...thats why im unsure if i should leave, if im not there then his head cant be in two places at once...
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xxMisfitxx · 22-25
@lancashirelady50 God no if i just got up and left... he'd be hurt and want me to stay but all in all he'd let me go if i forced it upon him. If i asked for space he'd let me have it. but i dont want space... which is my issue i probably need it but i just cant bring myself to do it
randomgirl42 · 26-30, F
I say to move on and find a good boyfriend who will put you first, not second. If he's not over his ex then he's not ready for his next.
Pdxman · 70-79, M
Fuck him