I Need Advice

Lately life has been like and emotional rollercoaster that won't end. Before graduating,I have to do a final essay but I'm stuck; my tutor thinks I should do it in one way but I feel like it is not the right path because I cannot find information and it is driving me crazy because I feel useless and dumb.

I tried doing it his way but I really cannot find information. Yesterday we talked and I told him that I will try and I did but it is impossible when you don't have the data you need. It is the methodology section so I can change it and continue doing my work but I just hope he understands that I cannot keep on wasting anymore time.

I feel sad, without motivation and like everything is crumbling down. I am afraid I won't graduate on time because of this and I just feel like crying. I suffer from anxiety, I keep on having attacks and I just want all this pressure to end.

Have you been through something like this? Do you have any piece of advice? I'd be grateful.

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HeartsBlossoms · 22-25, F

Take a deep breath and calm yourself. Take a rest if you need it. A rest can't do more harm. Letting yourself go on even though you're tired will only bring more harm.

As you do your work, take one step at a time. Listen to calming music.

Trust me. I know how it feels to lose all sense of motivation. It was a terrible experience, but I know you'll get through it.

Don't pressure yourself. You will make it through. Perhaps, you need a little talk with someone. It is always nice to let it all out.

That is all I can say. I know the feeling is different for everyone, but I know how hard it is to not be able to do anything. You will make it. I know it.

american22 · 26-30, F

@HeartsBlossoms Thank you for your words. Hopefully it will all get better. I just want to hope for the best.

Carla1951 · 70-79, F

First step is to calm down. I also have Anxiety. And there is help for this. Take yourself to any Pharmacy and ask them to help you locate a bottle of St.Johns Wort. It will help immensely to calm your anxiety no mater how strong it currently is. I love that it is NATURAL.
Also if you get occational migrains, I suggest you get a bottle of Excedrin Migraine Formula. This bottle does contain small amounts of Aspirin. The pain disappears in just a few minutes. Often I get them so bad I feel my head will explode.

TexChik · F

In this day and age , information is everywhere. Depending on what your subject matter is , perhaps call professionals in that field and ask a few questions . Almost and learned college grad would be glad to help you along your path . We’ve all been there. And don’t discount the tutor’s recommendation ... sometimes under stress our minds get locked in to a particular notion and a fresh view point can be helpful .

american22 · 26-30, F

@TexChik Thanks but regarding this topic I can assure you there is no information because it is related to the government of four countries and some of them either keep this information as private or they just begun to address this issues so there is nothing written.

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