I Need Advice

I currently got into a relationship w a really great guy...but i feel like im going to end up ruining it bc part of me is insecure and wants constant reassurance that he still likes me and still feels the same way but i try and keep that side away when im with him. He knows that and that i live w depression idk what to do all i know is that i don't want to mess this up...

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SW-User

I can understand this. No one wants to get hurt but sometimes you just gotta let all the "what ifs" go. Trust your gut and love deep. "Doubt kills".

I've loved hard for someone before. They abandoned me but I don't regret knowing this person. I learned alot from them. Vice versa. Overall, hurting me like that has made me better and makes me appreciate the ones who really love me even more.

LoveLana · 26-30, F

@SW-User thank you❤

ZenKitty · 31-35, F

A confidant female is sexy, try working on your issues or these insecurities can be really bad. If any of his action/behavior is making you feel that way..you must tell it to him. Communication is the key for all healthy relationships.

hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M

Learn to trust him and stop relying on yourself.

LoveLana · 26-30, F

@hippyjoe1955 well you can't really say stuff like that if you don't know me, my past and past relationships. Thank you

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Just accept each day as it comes .. No one has control over the future, so don't try... Just be you, if that's not enough than it wasn't meant to last :)

english · 56-60, M

So you are aware of your issues ,you cant control them even though you know the consequences ? that sucks 😕

LoveLana · 26-30, F

@english lol okay....😂

english · 56-60, M

@LoveLana i did not mean it as a bad thing ,must be frustrating 😕

PhoenixPhail · M

Those sound like the perfect words to tell him. If he walks away because he can't accept you as you are, he's not the right one for you anyway.

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

just tell him your concerns.

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