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I Need Advice

Hi there I am here because I don't know what to do, recently I broke up with my ex-boyfriend and I tried to end it all on good terms we both made mistakes and I accept my part of the blame but it's like he can't or won't, I blocked him and fell in love with the most amazing guy he is just so wonderful he makes me so happy. So here's the problem my ex-boyfriend made a fake account on Facebook pretending to be a female and tried to add my new boyfriend he even messaged him saying "she was looking for friends" he told me right away when he got home from work and when we went to look for the account it was gone and for a few days it seemed like it would stop but today the girl followed me on Instagram, I would like to point out that "she" doesn't know me or my boyfriend.

My ex-boyfriend has done this multiple times since we broke up and even during our relationship but I just want him to leave me and boyfriend alone and I have asked him but he always does it again and now he is involving my boyfriend and that is crossing a line I know he is behind this and all of the other accounts but he just won't stop, what can I do or what should I do I just want him to stop and leave me and my boyfriend alone is that too much to ask
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DistilledSpirit · 41-45, M
You just have to ignore it all. Keep blocking accounts you think are him and don't add any you think might be. Eventually he'll move on.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Document everything he does. Get people to send you screenshots of all the messages so you have a little trove of them.

Warn your friends, family, and close ones about his behaviour. You don't even need to name him, just mention that someone is harassing you through this method.

If he keeps up with it, send him a stern message. If he persists, it may be worth getting free legal council. The most you would get is a very stern scary letter from a lawyer, but that's a REALLY good way to stop people from doing stupid shit.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
Ignoring till he meets someone else and leaved you alone is quietest way. Completely ignore. Be oblivious.
TimSummers · M
That is called harassment and stalking. If you feel you or your boyfriend are in danger you should report it.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well do you live alone or at home if you live on your own have the locks changed just to be on the safe side . And maybe think about moving to another site like yahoo where it's limited action well not limited but not like fb the setup is different ,
Goralski · 56-60, M
Don't add no friends problem solved
TheCrab · 31-35, M
I agree with distilledspirit. If your ex escalates the situation then adapt and respond appropriately.

 
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