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I Need Advice

Is my teacher or am I in the wrong?

So about 3 months ago, my teachers brother chatted me up on Facebook, at the time I did not know they were brother and sister... I did not flirt with him at all, mostly cause hes 22! I just played it cool, and just was friendly,After he said "Goodnight xx" I did not 'x' him back. Then I found out that they are siblings, I messaged him saying it's inappropriate for us to be talking and ended it. But when I got into class (PE) I felt really awkward and felt like she knew, I told her the next day because I need to clear it out. My teacher said we can come for advice. I came to her twice for help, just health reasons for one and the other I just asked for advice and she cut me off saying go else where when she told us to come for advice and she didn't even know what I was going to say, sometimes she would get me to help her put gear away, I am a really friendly person who talks to people even if I don't like them, so I just would ask her like "How was you're weekend?" She could of just said "Good thanks" If she didn't want to talk about her personal life and that is what I thought she would of done, but she told me about her whole weekend. Then 2 months after telling her about her brother she sends me to the deans saying "I'm too friendly" But that's me. And set up a meeting, then she started making my life a living hell. So i messaged her brother explaining how its making me feel that way and he told her and sent it to the deans and got me in trouble. And the deans on her side.
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Mahjack · 31-35, M
Lesley, yes you do have to show respect but avoid talking to them has nothing to do with respect. It has something to do with avoiding problems. Especially when someone's constantly getting you in troubles and treating you bad when you're alone. You're not obligated to ask how's her weekend, and we both know what her brother wants, and it's wrong. Blocking him off isn't a bad decision, it's in fact, a good start. When someone does something bad to you, you don't overreact but you still need to do something about it to show them what they're doing is wrong, to save yourself from the troubles. You're really kind and innocent, you just need to know when you should react and what you should do :)