WorldlyWoes · 36-40, M
Dominus · 36-40, M
Wanting to avoid conflict is not the same as being weak.
Conflict rarely ever resolves anything and is more often a means for the weak, myself included, to alleviate their own personal frustrations.
You need to live your life in a way that makes you happy, not your friends, your dad, your brother or anyone else in your family. You will have to suffer the consequences of your actions, not anyone else.
People are not going to stop being rude or "pushing you around" even if you stand up to them. Some might but new ones will come along so it is not a solution.
If you were in a relationship and someone started abusing you the correct thing to do is go to the police, not to physically fight back.
It sounds to me like these people are "being hard on you" unintentionally. They expect you to operate by the same rules they themselves do. They are not you and unless you tell them how to live their lives have no right telling you how to live your own.
I wish you the very best. 🙂
Conflict rarely ever resolves anything and is more often a means for the weak, myself included, to alleviate their own personal frustrations.
You need to live your life in a way that makes you happy, not your friends, your dad, your brother or anyone else in your family. You will have to suffer the consequences of your actions, not anyone else.
People are not going to stop being rude or "pushing you around" even if you stand up to them. Some might but new ones will come along so it is not a solution.
If you were in a relationship and someone started abusing you the correct thing to do is go to the police, not to physically fight back.
It sounds to me like these people are "being hard on you" unintentionally. They expect you to operate by the same rules they themselves do. They are not you and unless you tell them how to live their lives have no right telling you how to live your own.
I wish you the very best. 🙂