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luckylassie
put yourself on the outside of the situation, try to forget about the past and start new and use some effort to get them into conversation. try to give them a second chance because grudges from when we were growing up can not usually be resolved because they happened when we so impressionable. ive learned a few things that happened i may have misunderstood but try to keep topics current. try not to lose your defenses but try not to let old thinking habits interfere. its not easy.