when is the perfect time?

when is the perfect time to get a boyfriend? when is the perfect time for me to lose my virginity? living in the city is no easy road to walk. all my friends have boyfriends and already lost their virginity and i feel so left out. at the same time i dont play follow the leader even though im goin at my own pace but still when is the perfect time to fall in love and lose your virginity i just need answers im only going in to 9th grade and almost every girl where im from has lost her virginity before age 14