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when is the perfect time?

when is the perfect time to get a boyfriend? when is the perfect time for me to lose my virginity? living in the city is no easy road to walk. all my friends have boyfriends and already lost their virginity and i feel so left out. at the same time i dont play follow the leader even though im goin at my own pace but still when is the perfect time to fall in love and lose your virginity i just need answers im only going in to 9th grade and almost every girl where im from has lost her virginity before age 14

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SpilledSecrets

there is no "time" - it just depends on when you find the right person that makes you feel happy nad comfortable enough to do those things with. I know a ton of happy, attractive, well-adjusted adults who freely admit they didn't start dating or having sex til they were college age or older. It doesn't mean you're ugly or annoying, or childish, or anything like that. it just means you aren't wasting your time on some loser who isn't worth it. Please, don't feel rushed or left out (though I know that's easier said than done) - relax, be happy in the life you lead, and things will more than likely fall into place.

noname99 · 22-25, F

thank you that reassured me that im on the right path of not following all my friends

Lavender007

Don't follow them, hold onto it until you know deep down inside that you are ready and comfortable. When this happens, you will know when it is time. Until then, let them keep on telling their stories.

noname99 · 22-25, F

thank you

Colemanus

maybe they lied to you.

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Colemanus

Losing virginity without love is like seeing a pretty flower then smelling the flower only to smell the flower has very little smell.
If you just have sex just to have sex for the first time you will crave to have better sex and become a slut.

noname99 · 22-25, F

true i had to re-read a couple times though to understand what you said but it all makes since

Colemanus

Best to love the guy or the guy shows he knows how please you.
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