how does it feel like for you when someone calls you a loser?

awee cheers for that. My mother called me a loser and compared me to her 'loser siblings'

Maybe she felt like an outcast in her own family and regardless of how hard she tried to raise you different from them, you are like her family anyway. It doesn't say anything about you. It's more about how she feels. Sounds like she has her own family issues. Regardless, it's bad behaviour for a mother to talk to her daughter like that. But it stems from pain, obviously, so it would be wise to take note of that.

yes, it really does stems from pain but she would often compare me to others, esp if I have not achieved something so far that is important to achieve (like jobs for ex).

I hope so lol, she sure said it that I really am a loser and that I'll never be successfully in life.

*successful

Prove her wrong. :)

aww !

look down upon myself more*

be brave and never take this in mind! XD

they're everywhere hehe

even if it came from your own mother or the person you trust?

wait to your own mother tells you that lol

She never will - she never did and died 35 years ago

heheh, even if at your age, I'd never call someone a loser coz we all have our own different capabilities in life.

Thanks, I know you won't. But there are a lot of mean people in the world.

in what sense?

I didn't say you D:

Lol

:(