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Why is it that some people apologize profusely for little things but never apologize for things that are deeply hurtful?

One of my sisters has said some very hurtful things to me and has never apologized for any of them. But if she accidentally bumps into me, she will say, "Oh my God, I'm SO SORRY!" What's up with that? Shouldn't the apology be in proportion to the offense? Her behavior makes no sense to me.

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howlandripintothefray

She and they are likely idiots

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

Perhaps where relationships are concerned, yes. Ironically, she is very highly educated. She was a registered nurse for many years and is now a lawyer.

dancer55

she may not realize how much her other behavior impacted and hurt you. some people are just blind to things emotional, but doing something physical to hurt you she sees.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

That reminds me of an adage that kids of my generation had drilled into us when we were growing up: "Sticks and stones may break your bones but words can never hurt you." What a difference a couple of decades can make in some people's thinking. But I'm afraid that my sister may still subscribe to that school of thought.