Why do some cheaters deny it to the end?
why is it that when a man or a woman cheats, even with all the evidence piled against them, they still deny it?
41-45, F
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nschildress
Three reasons:
1) Cheaters actually believe that the reality they present to people is MORE important than ob<x>jective reality. They don't actually deal with ob<x>jective reality because they won't judge themselves.
2) They tell themselves that it would only hurt you or the relationship more to admit the truth.
3) From a strictly social power standpoint, lying allows them to continue holding the power. They would be giving some up if they admitted cheating.
1) Cheaters actually believe that the reality they present to people is MORE important than ob<x>jective reality. They don't actually deal with ob<x>jective reality because they won't judge themselves.
2) They tell themselves that it would only hurt you or the relationship more to admit the truth.
3) From a strictly social power standpoint, lying allows them to continue holding the power. They would be giving some up if they admitted cheating.
darktippedrose · 41-45, F
thanx for your perspective