Do people deserve to get cheated on?
I keep on hearing people say that some people are askin for it, ie to get cheated on. I do not understand this. Anybody understand this?
41-45, F
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bijouxbroussard
No, I think cheating on someone is pretty heartless in general. I've seen relationships where I thought one partner deserved to be dumped, because they were being thoughtless and unkind to the other. Even so, I recognised that if both were choosing to stay, they might possibly be getting something from the relationship I didn't understand. But cheating, with the partner being deceitful and lying to them ? No one deserves that. Better to just be left so they can move on with their lives and find someone more compatible.
darktippedrose · 41-45, F
i understand completely. and I know appearances aren't what they seem. I have seen couples where the wife seemed mean, but when you got to see more stuff that was goin on, beyond appearances, sometimes they BOTH were mean to each other.