Do people deserve to get cheated on?
I keep on hearing people say that some people are askin for it, ie to get cheated on. I do not understand this. Anybody understand this?
36-40, F
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bijouxbroussard
No, I think cheating on someone is pretty heartless in general. I've seen relationships where I thought one partner deserved to be dumped, because they were being thoughtless and unkind to the other. Even so, I recognised that if both were choosing to stay, they might possibly be getting something from the relationship I didn't understand. But cheating, with the partner being deceitful and lying to them ? No one deserves that. Better to just be left so they can move on with their lives and find someone more compatible.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
i understand completely. and I know appearances aren't what they seem. I have seen couples where the wife seemed mean, but when you got to see more stuff that was goin on, beyond appearances, sometimes they BOTH were mean to each other.
pville102
No one deserves to get cheated on. I think there are way to many people so afraid of being single, they will "commit" themselves to someone they really don't care for or get along with. They will cheat to compensate failing to recognize their own fault for settling with someone who doesn't make them happy.
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pville102
I'm sorry to hear that.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
its cool. i pretend I don't know, but I do
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
yeah thats true. i think he is depressed, judging by the amount of ice cream he ate last night.
EmpowermentProject
No. Intentionally lying behind someone's back isn't ok. Even if the other person cheated, two wrongs don't make a right (but 3 lefts do). I still have yet to see an instance in which I thought that cheating was ok.
Think about it this way:
Some people think that when a girl wears low cut shirts and short skirts they are asking to be râped. Its still not ok.
Think about it this way:
Some people think that when a girl wears low cut shirts and short skirts they are asking to be râped. Its still not ok.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
I see what you mean
LadyBrazen
No one deserves to get cheated on, but some people don't work to deserve their relationships. My opinion; all relationships start with respect. Cheating and lying are disrespectful acts. Either come to a mutual agreement or part ways, but do it always with respect.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
I see. I have always respected people who broke up and then started with someone else. someone that was grown enough to realize its not workin beforehand. and yes I agree, they are disrespectful.
Kissweeterthanwine
Cheating doesn't just happen. There are isolated cases where one party is truly blameless but that's rare. In most cases there is plenty of blame to share. Either there is a lack of attention being paid to the relationship or someone is in an environment that makes it much easier to say "Yes."
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
well I honestly don't know what to say. my husband rejected me for sex since 2 weeks of marriage. he doesn't remember rejecting me and anytime i oppose him, I'm a liar. so I honestly can't say. but on the other hand, i have seen this happen a lot when men find out their kidz have disabilities
justout37
If my boyfriend ever cheats on me, that's the end of our relationship. I don't own him. The point is that he's free to do it if he wants to. As long as he doesn't want to, I want to stay with him.
JadeWand
NO: No one deserves to be cheated on..
It's like saying you deserved to be raped. wtf.
It's like saying you deserved to be raped. wtf.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
i know what you mean. or if you have to be assertive with your kidz or someone else, they so, "no wonder your husband left you" or "no wonder your husband cheats on you"
devilinangel
Deserve to? No, I don't think so. But justifiable? maybe.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
how justifiable?
jamesuleatu
NOBODY DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON
TwentythreePER
No one deserves it.
estibert
definitely not