Do other women feel guilty about "needing" lubrication?
I am 29 and this is the first time I have really NEEDED external lubrication. I feel sort of guilty and unfeminine for needing this.
Is that normal?
Is that normal?
36-40, F
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charles849
it happens I'm not a doctor but I've seen it happen to women of all ages , develop communication with your partner and add applying what you need to be comfortable , no reason for you to feel bad
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darktippedrose · 36-40, F
well thank you so much sweet lemonade
I can get super wet from cyber sex, but when I masterbate I use lube because I don't have the time. I am lucky if I can masterbate once or twice in 5-7 minutes in between hubby and the kidz
I can get super wet from cyber sex, but when I masterbate I use lube because I don't have the time. I am lucky if I can masterbate once or twice in 5-7 minutes in between hubby and the kidz
vimkha
dont thank me ...thank person for applying sufficient lubrication else you would have very painful results
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
oh i have had painful results for him. trust me- i've been praying for him to finish because it hurts so bad
devilinangel
Did you know that pregnancy can cause vaginal dryness?
Also, time shortly after periods, use of tampons, vaginal douches, and of course lack of enough stimulation ( not being fully turned on ) they all can cause lack of enough lubrication in a young woman.
No woman should feel guilty about using external lube when needed. Some of them, such as "Liquid Silk", feel very, very good ;-p
Also, time shortly after periods, use of tampons, vaginal douches, and of course lack of enough stimulation ( not being fully turned on ) they all can cause lack of enough lubrication in a young woman.
No woman should feel guilty about using external lube when needed. Some of them, such as "Liquid Silk", feel very, very good ;-p
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
yeah I didn't know that.
and yes, I know, not enough stimulation. but hubby isnt interested in that. He hates making me cum. I just wanted something so that the random time he DOES want sex, doesn't hurt like hell.
and yes, I know, not enough stimulation. but hubby isnt interested in that. He hates making me cum. I just wanted something so that the random time he DOES want sex, doesn't hurt like hell.
geneguy52
yes, more petting and pre stimulation with lubricant can help u, also, the same 4 him, to use lubricant on him, and milk/stimulate him with it also for u both to become more sexually ready.
vimkha
actually ,,your tight vaxxxxa needs this in case of insufficient arousal.or foreplay before the main act..
just means you require intimate kissing ,,caressing , licking ,,patting , till you are aroused to horny selflessness..and leaking out bubbles of honey from the lovecave
just means you require intimate kissing ,,caressing , licking ,,patting , till you are aroused to horny selflessness..and leaking out bubbles of honey from the lovecave
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thanx
geneguy52
you should not feel guilty at all, just as some men lubricate before intercoure like a stream, and others do not. Have your partner apply ID lube to you, and always use it during a masturbation.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
thanx.
umja
u shouldn't feel guilty at all
bigperv
I hope not ! !