Self Discovery II: Social
So many people put so much importance on being liked and accepted, I don't like that I have been conditioned to be this way but it is difficult to fight at times when people are so passive aggressive because they are too afraid to speak their minds so I am left trying to interpret if said people are being dicks or not (which shouldn't matter, I don't belief you should have to be nice because someone pretends to be friendly).
I don't want to want to be liked or accepted, I don't want to be friendly just because the other person is behaving friendly. I don't owe it to anyone to be polite and I don't want it from them when it is bullshit either...
It is a burden to want to be accepted because you repress things, you comply with people even if you are totally against what they are saying/doing, it makes you weak.
So I need to speak my mind when it is important to me, I need to not put importance on being liked or accepted; what others think. I need to have no fear of rejection. This is important because I prefer freedom to a life of comfort.
I don't want to want to be liked or accepted, I don't want to be friendly just because the other person is behaving friendly. I don't owe it to anyone to be polite and I don't want it from them when it is bullshit either...
It is a burden to want to be accepted because you repress things, you comply with people even if you are totally against what they are saying/doing, it makes you weak.
So I need to speak my mind when it is important to me, I need to not put importance on being liked or accepted; what others think. I need to have no fear of rejection. This is important because I prefer freedom to a life of comfort.