I don't want to be a bad person. :(

But I can't let people be mean or gang up on me or us. People like to judge and butt in other people's business.

I learned that a person can't be too kind or naive, else the world will devour you.
But having to be strong can be seen as arrogant. I try to learn from my mistakes. But I can only learn that after I make a mistake. People like to judge and gossip. I want to say it's not up to me to change their mind as I can only control my own mindset and actions.

But that I don't even want to try because I don't care about them...I wonder what has become of me?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

It’s OK to have healthy boundaries, to communicate those boundaries respectfully to others, and when they push you, remind them that you have already let them know clearly what your boundaries are, which are not negotiable. — If they don’t want to respect your boundaries then you’re sorry to see them go and you wish them well.

The best way to prove people wrong is to simply live your life in such a way that consistently aligns with your values and theoretically, if you’re doing that then your life is satisfying.. people notice when you are satisfied with your path or at least glad about your progress. That becomes the evidence that shuts them up. However, if you’re not satisfied with your life, and not glad about your progress than that actually might be your cue to re-examine yourself and how you’re living. unfortunately, when people aren’t satisfied with their own life others notice that too.

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

‘Build yourself up to such a level of strength that you could be a monster, but use the power benevolently’

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@pianoplayingsteve How?

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

@Casheyane just do something like that puts you into a better state than you were at the start of the day

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@pianoplayingsteve I can try.

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