If you met somebody that matched u so well in so many ways, just perfect for you,

what is recreationally? For me when people say recreationally ,or at least the way I use drugs recreationally ,would be a twice a year thing for some special occasion where I want to be introspective or have some emotional journey of a short etc. Otherwise it's a habitual thing ,not recreational . If someone was casually using drugs , like a weekly thing , I personally would not stay with them .